Not because of intuition. Because of patterns. Your messages show what you can't see from the inside.
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OurBase connects your messages, journal, and life events to reveal blind spots you can't see alone.
What you actually do. Your messages reveal anxiety patterns weeks before you feel them. Response times, double-texting, reassurance-seeking, the behavioral truth that contradicts your self-image.
What you tell yourself. Your journal entries reveal contradictions. You write "I trust them" while your messages show anxiety. OurBase detects the gap between your narrative and your reality.
What triggers your patterns. Events activate patterns. Your partner's social plans trigger anxiety. A friend's engagement brings pressure. OurBase connects the events to the patterns they provoke.
JOURNAL ENTRY
"I trust them completely"
MESSAGE BEHAVIOR
Checked phone 127 times
You're not secure. You're anxious. Your messages knew it before you did.
Stop repeating the same relationship mistakes. Understand why you're drawn to certain people and learn to make conscious choices.
Learn to spot unhealthy dynamics and unconscious attractions before you get too invested.
Discover what drives your relationship choices and break the cycle of unconscious decision-making.
Develop the self-awareness needed to attract and maintain genuinely healthy partnerships.
Join thousands who've gained clarity about their patterns
A simple 3-step process to reveal the patterns you can't see alone.
Connect your messages, add journal entries, and log life events. We analyze real behavioral data, not self-reports. The more context you provide, the clearer your patterns become.
Cross-reference your messages, journal, and events. Detect contradictions between what you tell yourself and what your behavior reveals. The gap is where growth happens.
The "aha moment" is just the beginning. OurBase measures concrete progress: your conflict cycles used to repeat every 10 days, now it's 18. Boundary enforcement: from 30% to 67%. Weekly reality checks catch new patterns as they emerge. You can SEE yourself growing, not just hope you are.
See how OurBase has helped people break free from unconscious patterns and build conscious relationships.
"OurBase helped me recognize the patterns I'd been blind to for years. I finally understand why I kept attracting unavailable partners and now I'm in the healthiest relationship of my life."
"The pattern insights were eye-opening. I could see dynamics across all my relationships that I never noticed before. It's like having a relationship intelligence coach in your pocket."
"After years of therapy, this app gave me the concrete data I needed to understand my patterns. The progress tracking keeps me motivated on my growth journey."
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