See your patterns, break your cycles. No judgment, no prescriptions—just clarity.
Built by someone who survived relationship trauma and found healthy love through pattern recognition.
Track your emotional regulation, attachment style, boundaries, authenticity, self-worth, and healing progress with our comprehensive framework.
Discover your unique relationship patterns and understand why you're attracted to certain types of people.
Visualize your growth journey with detailed charts, patterns, and personalized insights for continued development.
Stop repeating the same relationship mistakes. Understand why you're drawn to certain people and learn to make conscious choices.
Learn to spot unhealthy dynamics and unconscious attractions before you get too invested.
Discover what drives your relationship choices and break the cycle of unconscious decision-making.
Develop the self-awareness needed to attract and maintain genuinely healthy partnerships.
Join thousands who've gained clarity about their patterns
Hi, I'm the creator of OurBase, and I'm a relationship trauma survivor. After escaping patterns that nearly destroyed me, I searched for tools that could help me understand why I kept attracting the wrong people.
The resources I found were either too generic, too expensive, or didn't address the specific patterns that trauma survivors face. I needed something that could help me see my blind spots, track my healing progress, and make better relationship choices.
So I built the tool I wish I'd had during my darkest moments.
OurBase is free because I believe pattern recognition shouldn't be a privilege. If you find value in this platform and want to support the mission of helping others gain clarity, donations are welcome but never required.
This is my gift to anyone who's committed to growing, healing, and creating conscious relationships. You deserve love that feels safe.
"Your growth journey matters. You matter. And you're not alone in this."
A simple 3-step process to understand your relationship patterns and start your conscious growth journey.
Complete our comprehensive 6-pillar assessment to understand your emotional patterns, triggers, and attachment style.
Our pattern recognition engine identifies your unique relationship dynamics and explains the "why" behind them.
Monitor your growth journey with detailed insights, charts, and personalized recommendations for continued development.
See how OurBase has helped people break free from unconscious patterns and build conscious relationships.
"OurBase helped me recognize the patterns I'd been blind to for years. I finally understand why I kept attracting unavailable partners and now I'm in the healthiest relationship of my life."
"The pattern insights were eye-opening. I could see dynamics across all my relationships that I never noticed before. It's like having a relationship intelligence coach in your pocket."
"After years of therapy, this app gave me the concrete data I needed to understand my patterns. The progress tracking keeps me motivated on my growth journey."
Everything you need to know about your growth journey with OurBase.
Absolutely. Your personal information and assessment data are encrypted and stored securely in EU regions. We never share your data with third parties, and you can delete your account at any time.
OurBase complements therapy by providing structured self-reflection tools and data-driven insights. While we don't replace professional therapy, many users find our assessments help them prepare for therapy sessions and track progress between appointments.
Yes! In fact, we encourage it. Analyzing past relationships helps you identify patterns and understand what led to previous dynamics. This insight is crucial for making more conscious choices in the future.
Many users report increased self-awareness within the first assessment. However, lasting change takes time. We recommend using OurBase consistently for at least 30 days to see meaningful patterns and progress in your growth journey.
OurBase can help you gain clarity about your situation, but if you're in an abusive relationship, please prioritize your safety. Consider reaching out to local support services or crisis helplines for immediate assistance.
Join thousands of people who've transformed their relationship patterns and found the clarity they deserve. Your future self will thank you.